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Marriage Warnings, Parenting Guidance, and Divorce Advice.

My nickname is Dr. Dreamer because first, I am a Doctor, and second, I have always dreamt of a wonderful life, where my spouse, and I would enjoy our children and have a great marriage. Even though my original dream is shattered, as a result of a divorce, I am still dreaming.....I would like to share with you a brief introduction of my story. I got married years ago, and my marriage was pretty good for the first 5 years. After that,


"The Yearning and the Reality"

Dr. Dreamer

the relationship between my ex and me started to deteriorate slightly and steadily. However, things were still reasonable between us, and we had our first child. After the birth of our child, my ex changed a lot, negatively so. This affected our relationship further, and life was getting more difficult.After the birth of our second child, things were getting a lot worse between us. This was the beginning of the end.
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Wednesday, January 31, 2007

Marriage/Realtionship Warnings (Flags) Part 6

Hi everybody,


One of the most important warnings ever, when you are in a relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend, is your partner's immediate family!

Well, you might think at first:"what's this got to do with my girlfriend/boyfriend?"

It has a LOT to do with it! In fact, this is one of the most important factors in determining whether your relationship, whether as boyfriend/girlfriend, or as a married couple, will last. The reason is, again, in the beginning of a relationship, both of you will stand up to your respective families because you are in love. However, as years go by, love will not be as strong as it once was, most of the time, and as a result, if there are enough incompatibilities between you and your in-laws, problems will arise. This does not mean that you have to agree with your potential in-laws about everything, but generally, you have to make sure that there are some common grounds in thinking.

These problems get multiplied over the years, and interestingly enough, yet sadly, each one of you will eventually agree more with his/her family than with his/her partner. So make sure, from the beginning, that you see eye to eye with you future in-laws about important matters, especially raising children. Remember that the minute you have a child, your whole perspective about life changes, and your child will become the most important thing in your life!
Differences, as to how to raise the children, could cause enough dissension so as to bring about a divorce.

If you do not pay attention to this piece of advice, you will regret it, as the incompatibilities may very well ruin your marriage.

More, on this very important note, later.

Until then, I bid you a good night!

Dr. Dreamer

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