Marriage Warnings (Flags) Part 4

Hello everybody!

The gist of selfishness is when you feel that your wife/husband is taking a lot and not giving much in return. For example, If he or she is not helping as much as you do around the house, or in driving, etc...

In my case, my ex did not really help when we moved, which we did several times including moving out of state. I could see that my ex did not really care that much that I was doing all that work by myself, yet, in the beginning of our marriage, I did not pay to much attention to that.

Keep an eye on all those things that might seem trivial now. These are the warnings, or the flags, that you should be paying attention to from the beginning. If you see any of these, make sure to be very careful.

The most important lesson here is to try to find out whether your husband/wife is as devoted as you are. This is really critical to know before making the decision of having kids. Once you have kids, your life will change forever, so make sure that you are starting on the right foot

More on my next post!

Have a good afternoon!

Dr. Dreamer