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My nickname is Dr. Dreamer because first, I am a Doctor, and second, I have always dreamt of a wonderful life, where my spouse, and I would enjoy our children and have a great marriage. Even though my original dream is shattered, as a result of a divorce, I am still dreaming.....I would like to share with you a brief introduction of my story. I got married years ago, and my marriage was pretty good for the first 5 years. After that,


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the relationship between my ex and me started to deteriorate slightly and steadily. However, things were still reasonable between us, and we had our first child. After the birth of our child, my ex changed a lot, negatively so. This affected our relationship further, and life was getting more difficult.After the birth of our second child, things were getting a lot worse between us. This was the beginning of the end.
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    Tuesday, March 13, 2007

    Dating/Relationship/Marriage Warnings Part (10)

    Dear Loyal readers,

    Tonight, I will expound on "things in common".

    The more things in common you have with your girlfriend/boyfriend, or your husband/wife, the better the relationship will be both short term and long term!

    In fact, the long-term relationship is the one which benefits the most from that. Again, the interests that people share help a relationship work even after so many years of marriage. For example, it would be good if both partners liked the same type of music, and it would be even better if they liked the same sports, etc...

    So, when you are in the process of choosing a partner, make sure that you have something in common. Remember, the more, the better! This does not mean that you have to be identical. Some differences are welcome, as long as they are not fundamental!

    Here is an example of a fundamental difference: if you value education, for example, and your girlfriend/boyfriend does not, this is a major and a fundamental difference that might lead to serious problems in the future. While you might think at first that this is "cute" or that "it's not a big deal", think again!

    The reality is that this is going to affect your relationship drastically, should you decide to have children for example. Again, the minute you have children, you will develop the instincts of protecting them and doing what's best for them. If your partner does not value education and you do, this will be a source of major conflicts!

    More on that next time.......

    I bid you a good night!

    Dr. Dreamer

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