In-Laws and Divorce Part (2)
Hello everyone! Labels: In-Laws and Divorce
Back to the impact of the in-laws on marriages, and divorces!
One of the most important signs or flags to look for is rivalry between your in-laws and you. Sometimes it is initiated by one party or the other, or by a combination thereof. Usually this rivalry is negative in nature and fosters hard feelings which will, in turn, cause tension with the in-laws. This would add a lot of stress on the married couple, as they try to be loyal to their family members as well as to their spouse at the same time!
Clearly this is a very difficult situation for the couple. They both end up feeling torn between in the involved parties. Rivalry with the in-laws is usually not a healthy thing. I remember, that my in-laws were competing with me about every single aspect of which you can think. This was a sign of future problems!
As long as you and your spouse love each other, you will be strong in the face of the storms!
However, as soon as the relationship between the two of you weakens, the impact of the in-laws grows stronger, and their interference will eventually win out.
At first, some of the competition may seem fair to you whether it's about a game, a sport, or a discussion. Nevertheless, there is usually a reason that lies under this rivalry. In essence, your in-laws might be jealous of your achievements be they academic or athletic, etc...
This jealousy becomes the nucleus of future enemies who, when given the opportunity, will, like eagles, swoop down on their prey. So be vigilant!
Until next time, good night!
Dr. Dreamer


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