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Marriage Warnings, Parenting Guidance, and Divorce Advice.

My nickname is Dr. Dreamer because first, I am a Doctor, and second, I have always dreamt of a wonderful life, where my spouse, and I would enjoy our children and have a great marriage. Even though my original dream is shattered, as a result of a divorce, I am still dreaming.....I would like to share with you a brief introduction of my story. I got married years ago, and my marriage was pretty good for the first 5 years. After that,

"The Yearning and the Reality"

Dr. Dreamer

the relationship between my ex and me started to deteriorate slightly and steadily. However, things were still reasonable between us, and we had our first child. After the birth of our child, my ex changed a lot, negatively so. This affected our relationship further, and life was getting more difficult.After the birth of our second child, things were getting a lot worse between us. This was the beginning of the end.

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Friday, March 9, 2007

Parenting Advice Part (1)

Hello,

Needless to say that this is one of the most important topics!

During the difficult times of a divorce, you want to make sure to keep your focus on your kids. In essence, your kids should always come first. Try to shield the kids as much as you can. It is best if you can avoid arguing with your spouse in front of the kids, as this only hurts them.

Talk to your children about the divorce with a low tone, and explain to them that both parents love them, and that they, the children, have not done anything wrong. In other words, the children should not feel guilty because their parents are divorcing, as this is none of their doing. We understand that they will feel sad, but we do not want them to feel guilty!

As hard as it may be at times, try not to speak negatively about the other parent, mom or dad, as this is awkward for the kids and it affects them negatively. If both parents speak negatively about each other to the kids, then the children will be torn and will feel helpless.

I will expound on some of those issues next time.....

Have a great weekend everybody!

Dr. Dreamer

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